What’s the big deal with bonding?

Engaging in family bonding activities is essential for bringing family members closer together and establishing regular and meaningful connections. Children learn to develop trust, respect, and a sense of belonging by participating in these activities.

This lays a solid foundation for teaching, mentoring, and disciplining your children as they grow.

Relationships matter!

Think about what made your favorite teacher or boss great. Was it their reliability, their fairness, the mutual respect you shared, or perhaps the routines or boundaries they put in place?

If you already have some great family connections or are looking for ways to improve your family bonds, here are a few ideas to consider…

10 fun and easy ways to connect and bond with your kids!

1. Block time on your family calendar. Pick one to two days a month for family time and schedule it. You can choose to hang out at home and relax with the kids or head out for an activity. By putting it on your calendar, you are prioritizing family time and not letting it fall through the cracks.

2. Family Book Club. Select a children's book or a chapter to read for the week and discuss the story. There are many teachable moments in stories to talk about. Encourage your kids to think about the good and bad choices characters made. Ask them if they would have solved the problems in the book differently. Use the story as a tool to talk about values and real-world situations with your kids. It’s a great opportunity for some screen-free fun and connection!

3. Back and Forth Notebooks. This activity was a favorite in our family! When our kids were approaching school age, I bought them a chunky little spiral notebook. I would date the first page, write a message, or draw a picture and leave it on their pillow to discover. Once they found it, they had to write me back and leave it on my pillow. What happened over the years is that the kids would write and share times when they were worried about a problem at school or over a test. One wrote about her great-grandpa, who had just passed away. It was a great opportunity for kids to communicate in a more private way when they had concerns. It gave me a heads-up about some issues so I could make time to talk with the kids about them.

4. Giving Back. Involve your kids in supporting a charity of your choice. Join an annual family fun run or have your kids collect books to donate to a children’s hospital as a part of their birthday celebrations.

5. Family Vacation Wall. Select one photo from each family trip you take. Frame it and add it to a collection of family vacations or events on a wall in your home. Over the years, it will spark a lot of reminiscing and is a great conversation starter when people visit your home!

6. Family-friendly Happy Hour. Grab some easy snack foods and special mocktail ingredients for the kids, and enjoy an evening of talking and laughing with the family. Need some tips? Check out Create a Kid-Friendly Happy Hour and my free Family-Friendly Happy Hour Guide for recipes and ideas!

7. Display Kids Art. Frame the fingerprinting! Exhibit for the clay pot on the bookshelf! It makes your little artists feel special and a part of the home.

8. Attend local events, from farmer's markets to the local high school soccer game. Attending local events creates a shared experience within the larger community that your family is a part of.

9. Sunday Supper. Enjoying a nice family dinner before the start of the week is a great routine to have. You can talk about the upcoming week and review the weekend events. As kids get older, activities are rarely scheduled on a Sunday, and this time will become a valuable relaxation time to have with your teenagers,

10. Momento Box. Stash away keepsakes or projects for your kids. Once they become teenagers, bring out the boxes for them to look through. It will give you an open door for some easy communication and bonding time with your teen.

Investing in your child’s future starts with building a strong relationship today. It opens the door for good communication and opportunities for mentoring your kids along your parenting journey!

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